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Body: in sickness and in health

I won't lie; this body and I have had our issues with each other for many years. Body image -- sure. Physical and mental overextension -- comes with being a Type A kind of girl. I still struggle with these things, so they show up from time to time in my writing.

More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)

The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.

Travel: neither here nor there

When the person you're married to lives two time zones away, you log a fair number of frequent flier miles. And if you blog about commuter relationships, you log quite a few posts en route too.

Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.

Writing: the long and short of it

Why do I do it? Good question. Maybe it's not so much that I like to write but that I have to write, even when the words refuse to stick to the page. Believe me, I've tried doing other things like majoring in biochemistry (freshman fall, many semesters ago). Within a year, I'd switched to English with a concentration in creative writing and wasn't looking back.

After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.

The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.

Heart: family and friends

I'd have a hard time explaining who I am without being able to talk about the family I grew up in as well as the people I've met beyond its bounds. But even with such context, it's not easy! In the simplest terms, I'm a first-generation Asian-American who has spent most of this life caught between cultures. That, of course, doesn't even begin to describe what I mean to, but there's my first stab at the heart of it all.

That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.

Recommended reading

What do I do when there's too much on my mind and my words won't stick to the page? I escape into someone else's thoughts. Below is a collection of books and articles that have been sources of information, inspiration, and occasional insight for my own work.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

In which I suddenly become a local

... in two places at once. Yes, it's possible.

I'm back in Iowa, and surprisingly, I haven't really felt much need to "adjust" because my home here is more or less the way I left it in May. And my body remembers its routines in this space. On the first morning, I hopped into the shower after my workout as if I'd never been gone, turning the knobs for the tap just so for that perfect mix of hot and cold, reaching for my face towel hanging just outside the curtain on the towel bar without having to look. It was so familiar it was eerie.

It is nice, too. Last year, when I arrived, everything was new and awkward and I was anxious about learning how the bus system worked and uncertain about where to get my books and ID and parking pass and bombarded with orientation meetings in buildings I couldn't find and welcome-to-campus potlucks among people whose names I couldn't keep straight. This year, all I had to figure out was what I wanted to get from the grocery store for dinner on my first night back.

Interestingly, though, I'm also a West Coaster -- at least, in the eyes of the new first-years from California (I've met two, one from Los Angeles and the other from San Francisco). On our lunch break from TA training today, we ate with a girl from Hawaii. Add to our group another Seattleite who found us earlier this morning, and suddenly the "I'm from a time zone significantly behind this one" club has its charter members. And I'm one of them, even though I've barely spent more than six months in Washington -- ? Well, yes. I feel more at home talking with these girls about life on the Pacific than I do talking with Midwesterners about growing up in Illinois. But maybe that's because Midwesterners don't talk much (comparatively speaking) and those growing up years were very awkward in general ...

D and I also made our localness official on my last day in Seattle by getting library cards. We spent most of Saturday morning and early afternoon downtown, with the goal of enjoying being out and about so we wouldn't mope in the apartment about my having to leave the next day. One of the places we had intended to explore all summer was the Central Library, which is an incredible ten-story contemporary structure in the heart of the city. Parts of its stacks are arranged in a spiral going up the center of the building, and you can wander from floor to floor without having to use a single stairwell. Escalators are available, though, if you want to take an express route through those levels. The top floor space is devoted to a sun-soaked (but comfortably air-conditioned) reading room and a special collection of Pacific Northwest reference materials and rare books. This promises to be a great place to retreat to during those occasional heat waves in the summer (one of which we endured over the weekend).



So that's the latest landmark in Seattle that we've gotten to know. Iowa has a few of its own worth noting as well -- including the "World's Largest Truckstop"(!), which I passed on the way back to school:


I had intended to take a picture of this place last year at some point, but I never got around to it. Now that I have, I can say that if the Central Library is interested in a copy, I know exactly where they can shelve it:


In all seriousness, I do wish Iowa had a home for the printed word as attractive as what we saw last weekend. All the same, I've also heard good things about the public library here. Maybe I'll check it out as well, if only to give myself an escape from the academic aura (read: tension) that dominates the quiet corners of campus where I'd ordinarily hole up to work. Being local is fine, but I'm in no hurry to feel like an overtaxed grad student again.

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Wednesday, August 20, 2008

In which I suddenly become a local

... in two places at once. Yes, it's possible.

I'm back in Iowa, and surprisingly, I haven't really felt much need to "adjust" because my home here is more or less the way I left it in May. And my body remembers its routines in this space. On the first morning, I hopped into the shower after my workout as if I'd never been gone, turning the knobs for the tap just so for that perfect mix of hot and cold, reaching for my face towel hanging just outside the curtain on the towel bar without having to look. It was so familiar it was eerie.

It is nice, too. Last year, when I arrived, everything was new and awkward and I was anxious about learning how the bus system worked and uncertain about where to get my books and ID and parking pass and bombarded with orientation meetings in buildings I couldn't find and welcome-to-campus potlucks among people whose names I couldn't keep straight. This year, all I had to figure out was what I wanted to get from the grocery store for dinner on my first night back.

Interestingly, though, I'm also a West Coaster -- at least, in the eyes of the new first-years from California (I've met two, one from Los Angeles and the other from San Francisco). On our lunch break from TA training today, we ate with a girl from Hawaii. Add to our group another Seattleite who found us earlier this morning, and suddenly the "I'm from a time zone significantly behind this one" club has its charter members. And I'm one of them, even though I've barely spent more than six months in Washington -- ? Well, yes. I feel more at home talking with these girls about life on the Pacific than I do talking with Midwesterners about growing up in Illinois. But maybe that's because Midwesterners don't talk much (comparatively speaking) and those growing up years were very awkward in general ...

D and I also made our localness official on my last day in Seattle by getting library cards. We spent most of Saturday morning and early afternoon downtown, with the goal of enjoying being out and about so we wouldn't mope in the apartment about my having to leave the next day. One of the places we had intended to explore all summer was the Central Library, which is an incredible ten-story contemporary structure in the heart of the city. Parts of its stacks are arranged in a spiral going up the center of the building, and you can wander from floor to floor without having to use a single stairwell. Escalators are available, though, if you want to take an express route through those levels. The top floor space is devoted to a sun-soaked (but comfortably air-conditioned) reading room and a special collection of Pacific Northwest reference materials and rare books. This promises to be a great place to retreat to during those occasional heat waves in the summer (one of which we endured over the weekend).



So that's the latest landmark in Seattle that we've gotten to know. Iowa has a few of its own worth noting as well -- including the "World's Largest Truckstop"(!), which I passed on the way back to school:


I had intended to take a picture of this place last year at some point, but I never got around to it. Now that I have, I can say that if the Central Library is interested in a copy, I know exactly where they can shelve it:


In all seriousness, I do wish Iowa had a home for the printed word as attractive as what we saw last weekend. All the same, I've also heard good things about the public library here. Maybe I'll check it out as well, if only to give myself an escape from the academic aura (read: tension) that dominates the quiet corners of campus where I'd ordinarily hole up to work. Being local is fine, but I'm in no hurry to feel like an overtaxed grad student again.

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