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Body: in sickness and in health
More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)
The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.
Travel: neither here nor there
Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.
Writing: the long and short of it
After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.
The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.
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Why My Fall Made Me Feel So Ashamed11 months ago
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Mantras1 year ago
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Things Fall Apart3 years ago
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#MudpunchKAL20213 years ago
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Your Hard is Hard (The Pandemic Version)4 years ago
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Thank you, and a Look Ahead5 years ago
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A New Chapter9 years ago
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Overnight Research Trip9 years ago
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how to get through a thing10 years ago
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Heart: family and friends
That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.
Recommended reading
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Recent reveille-ations, or the diva cracks the whip
Within her first week here, we've gradually introduced her to more and more areas of the house such that she now has the freedom to wander around most of it, but at night, we keep her in the upper hall and the laundry room just so she doesn't get herself into too much trouble while we're not supervising her. This has worked out well, except that the upper hall is not soundproof. So in the predawn hours, when Jada decides it's time to get us out of bed with her dulcet but insistent meows, it's impossible not to hear her.
The good thing, though, is that she does get me out of bed, and I've found that I do my most focused work before D is up -- no distractions, just me and my (small) bowl of cereal, a mug of freshly brewed coffee, and my laptop. And since Jada's become friendlier, she'll accept an invitation to snooze across my knees while I'm typing away. (Yes, she wakes us up not for her breakfast but just to have company.) It's not a bad deal: a warm kitty cuddled against my body in exchange for early morning thesis work. Really, I should thank her for the progress she's helping me make ...
We've also determined that Jada is quite the butterball -- she came to the shelter at nine pounds and entered our care with an additional three! So we've been asked to get her moving to help her avoid any further weight gain (I have great sympathy). D is in charge of exercising Jada as he's really good at enticing her to stalk and pounce on things, and a few days ago, he decided to see how interested she'd be in some Mardi Gras beads. Well, she was interested:
Just not in chasing them.
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Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Recent reveille-ations, or the diva cracks the whip
Within her first week here, we've gradually introduced her to more and more areas of the house such that she now has the freedom to wander around most of it, but at night, we keep her in the upper hall and the laundry room just so she doesn't get herself into too much trouble while we're not supervising her. This has worked out well, except that the upper hall is not soundproof. So in the predawn hours, when Jada decides it's time to get us out of bed with her dulcet but insistent meows, it's impossible not to hear her.
The good thing, though, is that she does get me out of bed, and I've found that I do my most focused work before D is up -- no distractions, just me and my (small) bowl of cereal, a mug of freshly brewed coffee, and my laptop. And since Jada's become friendlier, she'll accept an invitation to snooze across my knees while I'm typing away. (Yes, she wakes us up not for her breakfast but just to have company.) It's not a bad deal: a warm kitty cuddled against my body in exchange for early morning thesis work. Really, I should thank her for the progress she's helping me make ...
We've also determined that Jada is quite the butterball -- she came to the shelter at nine pounds and entered our care with an additional three! So we've been asked to get her moving to help her avoid any further weight gain (I have great sympathy). D is in charge of exercising Jada as he's really good at enticing her to stalk and pounce on things, and a few days ago, he decided to see how interested she'd be in some Mardi Gras beads. Well, she was interested:
Just not in chasing them.
5 comments:
- French Fancy... said...
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Oh what a sweet necklaced cat. I think you can get little play units for cats - or maybe that's just on the Sims :)
- September 17, 2009 at 6:00 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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We've been considering whether a cat gym (they sell these climbable structures at pet stores) would be suitable, FF. I think a reconnaissance trip is in order ...
- September 17, 2009 at 10:06 AM
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I'm with you -- I love the early mornings before anyone else gets up! I don't know anything about cats except that the ones in our neighborhood get lots of exercise stalking and catching mice and moles and chipmunks. Then again, some of those cats are right hefty too. I don't know how you exercise cats. Can you walk them on a leash? I've seen people doing that at our campground.
- September 17, 2009 at 11:53 AM
- Good Enough Woman said...
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She likes bling!
A couple of weeks ago, I was walking our dog and came across a lady walking a cat on a leash. I approached her warily (my dog won't eat cats, but he'll run up to them to play), and the lady said, "Oh, we don't run from dogs," basically letting me know that she and her kitty hold their ground. Which they did!
I've never had a cat that did the leash thing. - September 17, 2009 at 12:49 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Sherlock -- some cats are supposedly very good on leashes, but we've been asked not to take any of our fosters outside. Indoor exercise it is ...
GEW -- how impressive! I have a feeling Jada would keep her cool, but I guess it would depend on how much of a barker the dog happened to be. When the vacuum gets too close to her, she gets quite hissy. - September 17, 2009 at 9:07 PM
5 comments:
Oh what a sweet necklaced cat. I think you can get little play units for cats - or maybe that's just on the Sims :)
We've been considering whether a cat gym (they sell these climbable structures at pet stores) would be suitable, FF. I think a reconnaissance trip is in order ...
I'm with you -- I love the early mornings before anyone else gets up! I don't know anything about cats except that the ones in our neighborhood get lots of exercise stalking and catching mice and moles and chipmunks. Then again, some of those cats are right hefty too. I don't know how you exercise cats. Can you walk them on a leash? I've seen people doing that at our campground.
She likes bling!
A couple of weeks ago, I was walking our dog and came across a lady walking a cat on a leash. I approached her warily (my dog won't eat cats, but he'll run up to them to play), and the lady said, "Oh, we don't run from dogs," basically letting me know that she and her kitty hold their ground. Which they did!
I've never had a cat that did the leash thing.
Sherlock -- some cats are supposedly very good on leashes, but we've been asked not to take any of our fosters outside. Indoor exercise it is ...
GEW -- how impressive! I have a feeling Jada would keep her cool, but I guess it would depend on how much of a barker the dog happened to be. When the vacuum gets too close to her, she gets quite hissy.
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