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Body: in sickness and in health
More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)
The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.
Travel: neither here nor there
Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.
Writing: the long and short of it
After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.
The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.
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Why My Fall Made Me Feel So Ashamed11 months ago
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Mantras1 year ago
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Things Fall Apart3 years ago
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#MudpunchKAL20213 years ago
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Your Hard is Hard (The Pandemic Version)4 years ago
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Thank you, and a Look Ahead5 years ago
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A New Chapter9 years ago
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Overnight Research Trip9 years ago
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how to get through a thing10 years ago
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Heart: family and friends
That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.
Recommended reading
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Unplugged
This elimination diet thing is getting a bit too literal for me.
After a day of research, we chose a new fridge last night, which will be delivered tomorrow, but until then, any foods that need chilling are crammed into a cooler on the back porch. Believe me when I say I'm counting the hours until the delivery truck shows up.
With the exception of this electronic snafu, our Thanksgiving was a good one. D and I spent the holiday and then some with his family in central Illinois -- we're trying to alternate Thanksgiving and Christmas with his parents and mine so that we don't have to do one marathon multi-city trip at the end of the year. So far, I think I like the change. We did throw in a small road trip to visit D's brother and sister-in-law in Michigan, where both are graduate students, but that was a relaxed six hours in a borrowed family minivan with leg room, rest stops, unrestricted access to personal electronics, and no worries about someone else's seat back reclining into my lap.
Of course, the view was a lot less impressive than it might have been by air, but the road did offer some scenic gems. Seriously, how can you not appreciate the comic irony in strip malls like this one?*
* I have no idea who took this picture -- we didn't have time to stop to take one ourselves -- but I am thoroughly impressed that Google, using only a search string that contained the names of the stores shown and "strip mall Indiana highway 30," was able to provide me a link to a discussion board where this image was posted.
Thesis
- "Writing in My Father's Name: A Diary of Translated Woman's First Year" in Women Writing Culture
- Because I Remember Terror, Father, I Remember You
- Darkroom: A Family Exposure
- Do You Remember Me?: A Father, a Daughter, and a Search for the Self
- Five Thousand Days Like This One
- Giving Up the Ghost
- Middlesex
- Simple Recipes
- The Bishop's Daughter
- The Possibility of Everything
- The Wounded Storyteller: Body, Illness, and Ethics
- Where the Body Meets Memory: An Odyssey of Race, Sexuality and Identity
On commuter relationships
- Commuter Marriages: Worth the Strain?
- Dual Career Couples: The Travails of a Commuter Marriage
- I Was in a Commuter Marriage
- Long-Distance Marriages, Better for Business?
- Love on the Road, Not on the Rocks
- Making Marriage Work from a Distance
- Survival Tips for Commuter Couples
- Ten Things Commuter Couples Need to Know
- Till Work Do Us Part
- Two Cities, Two Careers, Too Much?
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Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Unplugged
This elimination diet thing is getting a bit too literal for me.
After a day of research, we chose a new fridge last night, which will be delivered tomorrow, but until then, any foods that need chilling are crammed into a cooler on the back porch. Believe me when I say I'm counting the hours until the delivery truck shows up.
With the exception of this electronic snafu, our Thanksgiving was a good one. D and I spent the holiday and then some with his family in central Illinois -- we're trying to alternate Thanksgiving and Christmas with his parents and mine so that we don't have to do one marathon multi-city trip at the end of the year. So far, I think I like the change. We did throw in a small road trip to visit D's brother and sister-in-law in Michigan, where both are graduate students, but that was a relaxed six hours in a borrowed family minivan with leg room, rest stops, unrestricted access to personal electronics, and no worries about someone else's seat back reclining into my lap.
Of course, the view was a lot less impressive than it might have been by air, but the road did offer some scenic gems. Seriously, how can you not appreciate the comic irony in strip malls like this one?*
* I have no idea who took this picture -- we didn't have time to stop to take one ourselves -- but I am thoroughly impressed that Google, using only a search string that contained the names of the stores shown and "strip mall Indiana highway 30," was able to provide me a link to a discussion board where this image was posted.
4 comments:
- French Fancy... said...
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Belated Happy Thanksgiving to one of my favourite American bloggers. Shame about the fridge xx
- December 7, 2011 at 2:56 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Thank you, FF! I didn't know I held such an honor :). I was glad to see the update at your place -- happy so much has turned in such a good direction for you.
Our fridge situation is nearly back to normal. We are most thankful that we could arrange delivery within such a short time -- living out of a cooler was (ahem) no picnic! - December 8, 2011 at 11:18 AM
- Good Enough Woman said...
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Our fridge once went kaput while we were gone! My poor parents discovered it while house sitting for us. It was already toxic. They cleaned it and called for repairs. Can we say ABOVE and BEYOND?!
And I love road tripping. I love the control of being in a car over being on a plane--my own schedule, etc. And I love the quirky things along the road like that awesome but scary strip mall!
Glad your trip went well. Hope Christmas is going well, too. - December 23, 2011 at 12:41 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Wow, GEW. Your parents ROCK. Toxic was exactly what we returned to -- the fridge was trying desperately to run its compressor and in the process HEATING everything inside. The horror.
Hope your holiday is going well too! - December 23, 2011 at 9:43 AM
4 comments:
Belated Happy Thanksgiving to one of my favourite American bloggers. Shame about the fridge xx
Thank you, FF! I didn't know I held such an honor :). I was glad to see the update at your place -- happy so much has turned in such a good direction for you.
Our fridge situation is nearly back to normal. We are most thankful that we could arrange delivery within such a short time -- living out of a cooler was (ahem) no picnic!
Our fridge once went kaput while we were gone! My poor parents discovered it while house sitting for us. It was already toxic. They cleaned it and called for repairs. Can we say ABOVE and BEYOND?!
And I love road tripping. I love the control of being in a car over being on a plane--my own schedule, etc. And I love the quirky things along the road like that awesome but scary strip mall!
Glad your trip went well. Hope Christmas is going well, too.
Wow, GEW. Your parents ROCK. Toxic was exactly what we returned to -- the fridge was trying desperately to run its compressor and in the process HEATING everything inside. The horror.
Hope your holiday is going well too!
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