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Body: in sickness and in health
More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)
The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.
Travel: neither here nor there
Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.
Writing: the long and short of it
After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.
The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.
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Why My Fall Made Me Feel So Ashamed11 months ago
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Mantras1 year ago
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Things Fall Apart3 years ago
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#MudpunchKAL20213 years ago
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Your Hard is Hard (The Pandemic Version)4 years ago
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Thank you, and a Look Ahead5 years ago
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A New Chapter9 years ago
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Overnight Research Trip9 years ago
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how to get through a thing10 years ago
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Heart: family and friends
That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.
Recommended reading
Friday, May 8, 2009
So, so close
It's been a very packed week and then some since I last blogged. Besides the blitz-grading, I was in Seattle last weekend, celebrating our ten-year dating anniversary by cleaning the new house in preparation for the move -- very exciting! D insisted on carrying me over the threshold, which was a memorable way to enter our home for the first time after officially making it ours. (I made him promise not to throw me over his shoulder in a fireman's carry.) After we were married, he also carried me over the threshold of our first apartment, but this felt different. In a good way, of course.
In other exciting news, while I was gone, Ludwig started to bloom (see above). I think he'll finish just in time for me to return him to D's parents -- somehow, I don't think I'll be able to carry him on a plane, so they're going to take him back into their care. I can't wait to have potted plants again. My apartment at Little U. doesn't get enough light to support many, so I haven't purchased anything, though it's been tempting.
We've been thinking about things to plant in our garden, which borders our tiny patch of side yard (small enough that D can mow it with an old-fashioned human-powered lawn mower in about ten minutes if he's really trying to stretch out the experience). There are already several small shrubs and what looks like a Japanese maple rooted in. Our irises will be ready to transplant soon -- they're greening up very nicely now that the weather has turned warm -- and I have a packet of wildflower seeds that were sent to me as part of some promotional mailing. Random, but we'll take them!
D recently went to a tulip festival a few hours north of Seattle. I didn't think I was a fan of tulips as the ones I'd seen before always tended to get sloppy-looking very quickly after the first spring rain, but these are gorgeous:
We may just have to get some of these too:
D got a few panoramic shots of the fields while he was wandering around. The space restrictions here don't do them justice, but if you click on the photos, you can see the larger versions.
Twelve days. Yes. And more news soon(er), I promise. I have a feeling I'll need a few breaks to keep my academic writing brain from getting worn out.
Thesis
- "Writing in My Father's Name: A Diary of Translated Woman's First Year" in Women Writing Culture
- Because I Remember Terror, Father, I Remember You
- Darkroom: A Family Exposure
- Do You Remember Me?: A Father, a Daughter, and a Search for the Self
- Five Thousand Days Like This One
- Giving Up the Ghost
- Middlesex
- Simple Recipes
- The Bishop's Daughter
- The Possibility of Everything
- The Wounded Storyteller: Body, Illness, and Ethics
- Where the Body Meets Memory: An Odyssey of Race, Sexuality and Identity
On commuter relationships
- Commuter Marriages: Worth the Strain?
- Dual Career Couples: The Travails of a Commuter Marriage
- I Was in a Commuter Marriage
- Long-Distance Marriages, Better for Business?
- Love on the Road, Not on the Rocks
- Making Marriage Work from a Distance
- Survival Tips for Commuter Couples
- Ten Things Commuter Couples Need to Know
- Till Work Do Us Part
- Two Cities, Two Careers, Too Much?
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Friday, May 8, 2009
So, so close
It's been a very packed week and then some since I last blogged. Besides the blitz-grading, I was in Seattle last weekend, celebrating our ten-year dating anniversary by cleaning the new house in preparation for the move -- very exciting! D insisted on carrying me over the threshold, which was a memorable way to enter our home for the first time after officially making it ours. (I made him promise not to throw me over his shoulder in a fireman's carry.) After we were married, he also carried me over the threshold of our first apartment, but this felt different. In a good way, of course.
In other exciting news, while I was gone, Ludwig started to bloom (see above). I think he'll finish just in time for me to return him to D's parents -- somehow, I don't think I'll be able to carry him on a plane, so they're going to take him back into their care. I can't wait to have potted plants again. My apartment at Little U. doesn't get enough light to support many, so I haven't purchased anything, though it's been tempting.
We've been thinking about things to plant in our garden, which borders our tiny patch of side yard (small enough that D can mow it with an old-fashioned human-powered lawn mower in about ten minutes if he's really trying to stretch out the experience). There are already several small shrubs and what looks like a Japanese maple rooted in. Our irises will be ready to transplant soon -- they're greening up very nicely now that the weather has turned warm -- and I have a packet of wildflower seeds that were sent to me as part of some promotional mailing. Random, but we'll take them!
D recently went to a tulip festival a few hours north of Seattle. I didn't think I was a fan of tulips as the ones I'd seen before always tended to get sloppy-looking very quickly after the first spring rain, but these are gorgeous:
We may just have to get some of these too:
D got a few panoramic shots of the fields while he was wandering around. The space restrictions here don't do them justice, but if you click on the photos, you can see the larger versions.
Twelve days. Yes. And more news soon(er), I promise. I have a feeling I'll need a few breaks to keep my academic writing brain from getting worn out.
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I know you can't wait! It's all so exciting. Lovely flowers -- I used to think tulips were boring too until we got several different varieties for our yard. I especially like the pink and white variegated ones and they seem to last a very long time. My plain old yellow tulips lasted four weeks this year and that was through getting trampled a few times during construction of our deck stairs!! Have a good weekend -- grading, writing paper, and all!!
- May 8, 2009 at 3:03 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Hi, Sherlock! Those sound pretty :). D likes the variegated ones too. If we can find some that are hardy, we'll be in excellent shape.
- May 8, 2009 at 3:15 PM
- Bev said...
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All such good news!!! Congratulations on almost being done! I can't wait to see the new place :)
- May 9, 2009 at 1:02 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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There will be pictures, I promise :)
- May 9, 2009 at 2:15 PM
- French Fancy... said...
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The last bit of sand is almost through the timer and I'm thrilled for you. Now go and do your paper.
x - May 10, 2009 at 1:13 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Almost 11 pages, FF. Plugging away -- and I have strategically scheduled good-bye social events to make me stick by this. Am hoping to be done with most of this by tomorrow before heading out for drinks!
- May 10, 2009 at 2:14 PM
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I'm so happy for your! Finishing up. Moving to Seattle. New house. SOOOO exciting. Enjoy the wrap-up, and I can't wait to see pics of the house.
So. Do you have any special plans for the blog? Title changes, etc?
Oh, and I just love the way you appreciate the details in life. Like special tulips. - May 11, 2009 at 1:06 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Thanks, GEW! I did have a fleeting thought a few weeks ago that this blog's title would need a little revision -- am working on ideas.
- May 11, 2009 at 11:36 PM
8 comments:
I know you can't wait! It's all so exciting. Lovely flowers -- I used to think tulips were boring too until we got several different varieties for our yard. I especially like the pink and white variegated ones and they seem to last a very long time. My plain old yellow tulips lasted four weeks this year and that was through getting trampled a few times during construction of our deck stairs!! Have a good weekend -- grading, writing paper, and all!!
Hi, Sherlock! Those sound pretty :). D likes the variegated ones too. If we can find some that are hardy, we'll be in excellent shape.
All such good news!!! Congratulations on almost being done! I can't wait to see the new place :)
There will be pictures, I promise :)
The last bit of sand is almost through the timer and I'm thrilled for you. Now go and do your paper.
x
Almost 11 pages, FF. Plugging away -- and I have strategically scheduled good-bye social events to make me stick by this. Am hoping to be done with most of this by tomorrow before heading out for drinks!
I'm so happy for your! Finishing up. Moving to Seattle. New house. SOOOO exciting. Enjoy the wrap-up, and I can't wait to see pics of the house.
So. Do you have any special plans for the blog? Title changes, etc?
Oh, and I just love the way you appreciate the details in life. Like special tulips.
Thanks, GEW! I did have a fleeting thought a few weeks ago that this blog's title would need a little revision -- am working on ideas.
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