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Body: in sickness and in health
More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)
The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.
Travel: neither here nor there
Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.
Writing: the long and short of it
After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.
The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.
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Why My Fall Made Me Feel So Ashamed11 months ago
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Mantras1 year ago
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Things Fall Apart3 years ago
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#MudpunchKAL20213 years ago
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Your Hard is Hard (The Pandemic Version)4 years ago
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Thank you, and a Look Ahead5 years ago
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A New Chapter9 years ago
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Overnight Research Trip9 years ago
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how to get through a thing10 years ago
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Heart: family and friends
That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.
Recommended reading
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Yow!
Well, it apparently isn't off by much. At my last check, weather.com was reporting a current temperature of 104 degrees with a heat index of 109.
We're managing -- lots of caprese salads, cucumbers and hummus, fresh berries, and of course, water. The air conditioner in our bedroom is keeping us comfortable at night, and we try to do as much work around the house as possible during the cooler parts of the day. And that works quite well for two people in our space.
The forecast is not inspiring confidence for next week, however, when Troubadour Mom and Dad are slated to arrive. This heat wave was supposed to crest somewhere in the vicinity of yesterday and ease its way out of the area, leaving behind temperatures in the low 80s. At this moment, I'm seeing reports of much less comfortable highs all the way into Monday. Troubadour Mom and Dad land on Tuesday.
We'll take a few days in Vancouver in an air-conditioned hotel (Troubadour Dad needs his authentic Chinese-style seafood fix), probably returning Thursday night. May the weather gods be merciful by then -- I have no idea how I'm going to magically procure climate-controlled sleeping quarters for everyone.
Thesis
- "Writing in My Father's Name: A Diary of Translated Woman's First Year" in Women Writing Culture
- Because I Remember Terror, Father, I Remember You
- Darkroom: A Family Exposure
- Do You Remember Me?: A Father, a Daughter, and a Search for the Self
- Five Thousand Days Like This One
- Giving Up the Ghost
- Middlesex
- Simple Recipes
- The Bishop's Daughter
- The Possibility of Everything
- The Wounded Storyteller: Body, Illness, and Ethics
- Where the Body Meets Memory: An Odyssey of Race, Sexuality and Identity
On commuter relationships
- Commuter Marriages: Worth the Strain?
- Dual Career Couples: The Travails of a Commuter Marriage
- I Was in a Commuter Marriage
- Long-Distance Marriages, Better for Business?
- Love on the Road, Not on the Rocks
- Making Marriage Work from a Distance
- Survival Tips for Commuter Couples
- Ten Things Commuter Couples Need to Know
- Till Work Do Us Part
- Two Cities, Two Careers, Too Much?
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Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Yow!
Well, it apparently isn't off by much. At my last check, weather.com was reporting a current temperature of 104 degrees with a heat index of 109.
We're managing -- lots of caprese salads, cucumbers and hummus, fresh berries, and of course, water. The air conditioner in our bedroom is keeping us comfortable at night, and we try to do as much work around the house as possible during the cooler parts of the day. And that works quite well for two people in our space.
The forecast is not inspiring confidence for next week, however, when Troubadour Mom and Dad are slated to arrive. This heat wave was supposed to crest somewhere in the vicinity of yesterday and ease its way out of the area, leaving behind temperatures in the low 80s. At this moment, I'm seeing reports of much less comfortable highs all the way into Monday. Troubadour Mom and Dad land on Tuesday.
We'll take a few days in Vancouver in an air-conditioned hotel (Troubadour Dad needs his authentic Chinese-style seafood fix), probably returning Thursday night. May the weather gods be merciful by then -- I have no idea how I'm going to magically procure climate-controlled sleeping quarters for everyone.
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Whew that's some kinda hot!! We have mid and high 90's frequently during the summer and our problem is the humidity, which can make for a heat index of 105-110. Not pleasant at all. Glad to hear you have AC in the bedroom and hope the heatwave is over soon!! Stay cool!
- July 29, 2009 at 7:32 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Yikes, I remember the humidity all too well from my days in the Midwest. Highs in the high 90s and enough moisture in the air to feel it condensing on your hands as you fanned yourself with them! Hope you're getting nicer weather in your part of the U.S., Sherlock!
- July 29, 2009 at 9:13 PM
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In Scotland these days it's around 15 degrees celcius. And rain. Nice and cool....
- July 30, 2009 at 3:59 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Ahhh, HGG, that sounds wonderful. Lucky, lucky you.
- July 30, 2009 at 9:54 AM
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So you've got the hot weather that Northern Europe was meant to have this summer. For the last few weeks the temp has not got much above 68 with rain and clouds.
Poor you - I' rather be cool than hot - July 30, 2009 at 2:11 PM
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Agreed, FF! If you feel cold, you can at least do something about it with an extra sweater or a pile of blankets. If you're too warm, though, you can only remove so much ...
- July 30, 2009 at 6:12 PM
- Creations by Marie Antoinette and Edie Marie said...
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Hi,most of the summer down here in Southern Miss,Has been in the triple digits.But right now we have been cooling down with much needed rain.So far so good with the hurricans,this yr.Its so humid here you can't breathe sometimes.Regards Marie Antionette
- August 1, 2009 at 11:10 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Hi, Marie A., thanks for stopping by! Glad you're enjoying cooler temps. Crossing my fingers on the hurricanes for you -- I was living in Dallas when Katrina and Rita came through, and the stories we heard from the folks who relocated to our part of Texas in the aftermath were scary and sad.
- August 1, 2009 at 11:28 AM
8 comments:
Whew that's some kinda hot!! We have mid and high 90's frequently during the summer and our problem is the humidity, which can make for a heat index of 105-110. Not pleasant at all. Glad to hear you have AC in the bedroom and hope the heatwave is over soon!! Stay cool!
Yikes, I remember the humidity all too well from my days in the Midwest. Highs in the high 90s and enough moisture in the air to feel it condensing on your hands as you fanned yourself with them! Hope you're getting nicer weather in your part of the U.S., Sherlock!
In Scotland these days it's around 15 degrees celcius. And rain. Nice and cool....
Ahhh, HGG, that sounds wonderful. Lucky, lucky you.
So you've got the hot weather that Northern Europe was meant to have this summer. For the last few weeks the temp has not got much above 68 with rain and clouds.
Poor you - I' rather be cool than hot
Agreed, FF! If you feel cold, you can at least do something about it with an extra sweater or a pile of blankets. If you're too warm, though, you can only remove so much ...
Hi,most of the summer down here in Southern Miss,Has been in the triple digits.But right now we have been cooling down with much needed rain.So far so good with the hurricans,this yr.Its so humid here you can't breathe sometimes.Regards Marie Antionette
Hi, Marie A., thanks for stopping by! Glad you're enjoying cooler temps. Crossing my fingers on the hurricanes for you -- I was living in Dallas when Katrina and Rita came through, and the stories we heard from the folks who relocated to our part of Texas in the aftermath were scary and sad.
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