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Body: in sickness and in health
More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)
The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.
Travel: neither here nor there
Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.
Writing: the long and short of it
After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.
The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.
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Why My Fall Made Me Feel So Ashamed11 months ago
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Mantras1 year ago
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Things Fall Apart3 years ago
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#MudpunchKAL20213 years ago
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Your Hard is Hard (The Pandemic Version)4 years ago
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Thank you, and a Look Ahead5 years ago
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A New Chapter9 years ago
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Overnight Research Trip9 years ago
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how to get through a thing10 years ago
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Heart: family and friends
That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.
Recommended reading
Thursday, October 15, 2009
And now, we celebrate
In the meantime, D and I are having a party -- a housewarming, to be precise. It's slightly belated because of our hectic summer (couldn't find a large enough window between family visits and weddings to throw a proper shindig). But no matter. We've finally managed to pull together plans for a fun evening celebrating our move to our new place and our long-awaited reunion.
In keeping with this, the theme for our party is East Meets West: we're honoring traditions from Oktoberfest and the Mid-Autumn Festival as an homage to our heritage. (Even though D's family name is Dutch, he's a good part German from his mother's side.) This means there will be many a German beer, all kinds of wurst, and pretzels the size of your head, to be served alongside a variety of Chinese dumplings and, of course, mooncakes. In the spirit of true fusion, we're also making Asian cole slaw and serving a fine Riesling by Pacific Rim.
We are hoping the German province flags that D ordered will arrive in time for the celebration. For now, we've got Chinese lanterns already in place:
(It took some creativity to get the two to hang between the lights in the background of the photo with just fishing line and no nails; I think that was our biggest accomplishment this week.)
So I'm off to finish doing what I can ahead of time to prepare for 30 guests (thus far -- there are still some RSVPs that haven't come in yet!). More on how it all turns out very, very soon.
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- "Writing in My Father's Name: A Diary of Translated Woman's First Year" in Women Writing Culture
- Because I Remember Terror, Father, I Remember You
- Darkroom: A Family Exposure
- Do You Remember Me?: A Father, a Daughter, and a Search for the Self
- Five Thousand Days Like This One
- Giving Up the Ghost
- Middlesex
- Simple Recipes
- The Bishop's Daughter
- The Possibility of Everything
- The Wounded Storyteller: Body, Illness, and Ethics
- Where the Body Meets Memory: An Odyssey of Race, Sexuality and Identity
On commuter relationships
- Commuter Marriages: Worth the Strain?
- Dual Career Couples: The Travails of a Commuter Marriage
- I Was in a Commuter Marriage
- Long-Distance Marriages, Better for Business?
- Love on the Road, Not on the Rocks
- Making Marriage Work from a Distance
- Survival Tips for Commuter Couples
- Ten Things Commuter Couples Need to Know
- Till Work Do Us Part
- Two Cities, Two Careers, Too Much?
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Thursday, October 15, 2009
And now, we celebrate
In the meantime, D and I are having a party -- a housewarming, to be precise. It's slightly belated because of our hectic summer (couldn't find a large enough window between family visits and weddings to throw a proper shindig). But no matter. We've finally managed to pull together plans for a fun evening celebrating our move to our new place and our long-awaited reunion.
In keeping with this, the theme for our party is East Meets West: we're honoring traditions from Oktoberfest and the Mid-Autumn Festival as an homage to our heritage. (Even though D's family name is Dutch, he's a good part German from his mother's side.) This means there will be many a German beer, all kinds of wurst, and pretzels the size of your head, to be served alongside a variety of Chinese dumplings and, of course, mooncakes. In the spirit of true fusion, we're also making Asian cole slaw and serving a fine Riesling by Pacific Rim.
We are hoping the German province flags that D ordered will arrive in time for the celebration. For now, we've got Chinese lanterns already in place:
(It took some creativity to get the two to hang between the lights in the background of the photo with just fishing line and no nails; I think that was our biggest accomplishment this week.)
So I'm off to finish doing what I can ahead of time to prepare for 30 guests (thus far -- there are still some RSVPs that haven't come in yet!). More on how it all turns out very, very soon.
5 comments:
- Good Enough Woman said...
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Sounds like quite an extravaganza, and you're lanterns look awesome! Really stunning and beautiful.
So glad the procedure went fine. - October 15, 2009 at 11:08 PM
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Glad everything went fine. I may be having to get that done sometime in the next few months. Hubby has had two and has no memory of either.
Sounds like a great time coming up with the party! Have fun and looking forward to more pix of the decorations and FOOD!!!! - October 16, 2009 at 8:05 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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GEW -- thanks :). We found them at World Market! Amazing steal, and they don't need to be plugged in.
Sherlock -- if you have to have it, it's definitely not bad. Hope you don't have to all the same, though.
As for more pics of decorations, I will try to get some before the house is inundated with people. And as for the food, I will try to take a few snapshots before it all disappears ... - October 16, 2009 at 8:32 PM
- French Fancy... said...
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How come I missed this post of yours? There were a few days when it was difficult to sit down and that must be when it got published - sorry about that.
I love the Dutch and oriental fusion - okay, German/Dutch/Oriental fusion - and I'm also very very pleased for you re your results. - October 24, 2009 at 6:32 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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FF, it's been busy here too! Glad you had a chance to stop by :). Thanks for the good wishes.
- October 26, 2009 at 1:16 PM
5 comments:
Sounds like quite an extravaganza, and you're lanterns look awesome! Really stunning and beautiful.
So glad the procedure went fine.
Glad everything went fine. I may be having to get that done sometime in the next few months. Hubby has had two and has no memory of either.
Sounds like a great time coming up with the party! Have fun and looking forward to more pix of the decorations and FOOD!!!!
GEW -- thanks :). We found them at World Market! Amazing steal, and they don't need to be plugged in.
Sherlock -- if you have to have it, it's definitely not bad. Hope you don't have to all the same, though.
As for more pics of decorations, I will try to get some before the house is inundated with people. And as for the food, I will try to take a few snapshots before it all disappears ...
How come I missed this post of yours? There were a few days when it was difficult to sit down and that must be when it got published - sorry about that.
I love the Dutch and oriental fusion - okay, German/Dutch/Oriental fusion - and I'm also very very pleased for you re your results.
FF, it's been busy here too! Glad you had a chance to stop by :). Thanks for the good wishes.
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