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Body: in sickness and in health
More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)
The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.
Travel: neither here nor there
Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.
Writing: the long and short of it
After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.
The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.
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Why My Fall Made Me Feel So Ashamed11 months ago
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Mantras1 year ago
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Things Fall Apart3 years ago
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#MudpunchKAL20213 years ago
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Your Hard is Hard (The Pandemic Version)4 years ago
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Thank you, and a Look Ahead5 years ago
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A New Chapter9 years ago
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Overnight Research Trip9 years ago
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how to get through a thing10 years ago
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Heart: family and friends
That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.
Recommended reading
Sunday, November 29, 2009
A cozy weekend
Almost Dr. Sis arrived on Tuesday with her boyfriend (such a sweet guy!). I picked them up at the airport and got them settled in our newly crown-molded guest room with bonus new light fixture (we replaced the old one right before they arrived as it was missing a cover for the light bulbs -- kind of ugly). Marketing Sis got in the following evening.
We had already done much chatting over e-mail to determine what we wanted on the menu (besides the 20-pound turkey we got from Safeway). In the end, we made farro with goat cheese and butternut squash, roasted herbed potatoes and pearl onions, cranberry sauce spiked with rum, D's great-grandmother's cornbread, and stuffing. It was epic. I am pleased to say the turkey was juicy and flavorful thanks to the amazing broth-and-butter seasoning method Almost Dr. Sis recommended from a cooking demonstration she got to see. We also spatchcocked our bird to shorten the roasting time. Even so, it took three hours to reach the proper temperature since it was so huge, but it was worth the wait. Here's a look at the feast in its final stages from stove to table (thanks to Marketing Sis for the photos):
Now all our visitors are gone, and I'm feeling a little sad about that, but overall, I'm still enjoying the memory of a really lovely gathering. I think Troubadour Dad is hoping we don't turn this into a regular thing (sisters-only for Turkey Day), so it will probably be a whole-family event next year. But we are definitely going to pick a holiday to do on our own at least once yearly. It was too much fun not to make it a tradition.
Work calls -- I've been away from the thesis over the holiday and my advisor wants another installment by the end of the weekend. I'd much rather be doing what Simone seems to love (see below), but that'll have to wait. More news shortly ...
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- Darkroom: A Family Exposure
- Do You Remember Me?: A Father, a Daughter, and a Search for the Self
- Five Thousand Days Like This One
- Giving Up the Ghost
- Middlesex
- Simple Recipes
- The Bishop's Daughter
- The Possibility of Everything
- The Wounded Storyteller: Body, Illness, and Ethics
- Where the Body Meets Memory: An Odyssey of Race, Sexuality and Identity
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- Commuter Marriages: Worth the Strain?
- Dual Career Couples: The Travails of a Commuter Marriage
- I Was in a Commuter Marriage
- Long-Distance Marriages, Better for Business?
- Love on the Road, Not on the Rocks
- Making Marriage Work from a Distance
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Sunday, November 29, 2009
A cozy weekend
Almost Dr. Sis arrived on Tuesday with her boyfriend (such a sweet guy!). I picked them up at the airport and got them settled in our newly crown-molded guest room with bonus new light fixture (we replaced the old one right before they arrived as it was missing a cover for the light bulbs -- kind of ugly). Marketing Sis got in the following evening.
We had already done much chatting over e-mail to determine what we wanted on the menu (besides the 20-pound turkey we got from Safeway). In the end, we made farro with goat cheese and butternut squash, roasted herbed potatoes and pearl onions, cranberry sauce spiked with rum, D's great-grandmother's cornbread, and stuffing. It was epic. I am pleased to say the turkey was juicy and flavorful thanks to the amazing broth-and-butter seasoning method Almost Dr. Sis recommended from a cooking demonstration she got to see. We also spatchcocked our bird to shorten the roasting time. Even so, it took three hours to reach the proper temperature since it was so huge, but it was worth the wait. Here's a look at the feast in its final stages from stove to table (thanks to Marketing Sis for the photos):
Now all our visitors are gone, and I'm feeling a little sad about that, but overall, I'm still enjoying the memory of a really lovely gathering. I think Troubadour Dad is hoping we don't turn this into a regular thing (sisters-only for Turkey Day), so it will probably be a whole-family event next year. But we are definitely going to pick a holiday to do on our own at least once yearly. It was too much fun not to make it a tradition.
Work calls -- I've been away from the thesis over the holiday and my advisor wants another installment by the end of the weekend. I'd much rather be doing what Simone seems to love (see below), but that'll have to wait. More news shortly ...
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So glad to hear about your wonderful Thanksgiving. The food looks yummy and the table gorgeous!!
Never heard of the turkey thing so looked it up. Great to know!! I cook a turkey breast in the roaster about every month or so and this will be a real time-saver!! - November 30, 2009 at 8:10 AM
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Oh that looks and sounds a delicious meal. I also love your roasting tin - wish mine had handles.
I love corn bread and have tried to make it but you can't get the right sort of corn here. - November 30, 2009 at 9:04 AM
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I think it sounds so amazingly fun--a sister's-only Thanksgiving! How lucky you are to have each other.
- November 30, 2009 at 9:25 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Sherlock -- D loves setting a nice table. He gets that from his dad :). And the spatchcocking technique is excellent on a normal-sized bird. We've used it before on a 12-pounder and it worked very well.
FF -- the handles are so helpful on that roaster. I was afraid the turkey wouldn't fit inside, though! We had to convince it. Too bad about not having the right kind of cornmeal. Maybe Mr. FF will have to pick up some when he's in London?
TKW -- having sisters in town was the best part of the holiday for sure. I think we're going to try for Labor Day weekend in the future or something like it. - November 30, 2009 at 12:24 PM
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Yay for sisterly-love, which I, myself, do not have. But I do have a cousin with whom I am close, so I have SOME sense of the concept. I'm glad you had such a great time and such a great meal. Cheers!
- November 30, 2009 at 1:24 PM
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Cheers to you too, GEW! Being close with cousins is lovely. I do sometimes envy my mother's nieces and nephews (children of her five siblings), most of whom grew up near one another in Canada. They are close as well -- my sisters and I are those rarely seen U.S. relatives when we have family reunions with them. Still, it's always fun to see everyone again.
- November 30, 2009 at 3:00 PM
6 comments:
So glad to hear about your wonderful Thanksgiving. The food looks yummy and the table gorgeous!!
Never heard of the turkey thing so looked it up. Great to know!! I cook a turkey breast in the roaster about every month or so and this will be a real time-saver!!
Oh that looks and sounds a delicious meal. I also love your roasting tin - wish mine had handles.
I love corn bread and have tried to make it but you can't get the right sort of corn here.
I think it sounds so amazingly fun--a sister's-only Thanksgiving! How lucky you are to have each other.
Sherlock -- D loves setting a nice table. He gets that from his dad :). And the spatchcocking technique is excellent on a normal-sized bird. We've used it before on a 12-pounder and it worked very well.
FF -- the handles are so helpful on that roaster. I was afraid the turkey wouldn't fit inside, though! We had to convince it. Too bad about not having the right kind of cornmeal. Maybe Mr. FF will have to pick up some when he's in London?
TKW -- having sisters in town was the best part of the holiday for sure. I think we're going to try for Labor Day weekend in the future or something like it.
Yay for sisterly-love, which I, myself, do not have. But I do have a cousin with whom I am close, so I have SOME sense of the concept. I'm glad you had such a great time and such a great meal. Cheers!
Cheers to you too, GEW! Being close with cousins is lovely. I do sometimes envy my mother's nieces and nephews (children of her five siblings), most of whom grew up near one another in Canada. They are close as well -- my sisters and I are those rarely seen U.S. relatives when we have family reunions with them. Still, it's always fun to see everyone again.
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