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Body: in sickness and in health
More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)
The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.
Travel: neither here nor there
Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.
Writing: the long and short of it
After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.
The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.
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Why My Fall Made Me Feel So Ashamed11 months ago
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Mantras1 year ago
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Things Fall Apart3 years ago
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#MudpunchKAL20213 years ago
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Your Hard is Hard (The Pandemic Version)4 years ago
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Thank you, and a Look Ahead5 years ago
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A New Chapter9 years ago
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Overnight Research Trip9 years ago
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how to get through a thing10 years ago
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Heart: family and friends
That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.
Recommended reading
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
It's prime time
To whoever thought it would be a selling point to paint one of the bedrooms Wal-Mart blue and the other Pepto-Bismol pink: it's not at all charming. Here's what each room looks like with a patch of primer (two coats):
The gray-tinted stuff seems to be quite effective on the blue, but the white is hardly affecting the pink (can you even see where it is?). D's added another coat of white this evening; hopefully that will be enough. Tomorrow, we'll test out some color samples.
To Almost Dr. Sis and Marketing Sis, who will be staying here over Thanksgiving: we promise the guest room will be dry before you arrive in two weeks. But you might have to leave the painter's tape in place -- we're not expecting to get to the actual top-coat color until after Turkey Day, given how slowly this is going ...
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Wednesday, November 11, 2009
It's prime time
To whoever thought it would be a selling point to paint one of the bedrooms Wal-Mart blue and the other Pepto-Bismol pink: it's not at all charming. Here's what each room looks like with a patch of primer (two coats):
The gray-tinted stuff seems to be quite effective on the blue, but the white is hardly affecting the pink (can you even see where it is?). D's added another coat of white this evening; hopefully that will be enough. Tomorrow, we'll test out some color samples.
To Almost Dr. Sis and Marketing Sis, who will be staying here over Thanksgiving: we promise the guest room will be dry before you arrive in two weeks. But you might have to leave the painter's tape in place -- we're not expecting to get to the actual top-coat color until after Turkey Day, given how slowly this is going ...
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LOL this made me think of when bro-in-law and family moved into a huge new house two years ago, sis-in-law hired painters to do the inside of the entire house. She couldn't wait to show off the house when they were done. OMG the colors made me shudder!!!!! It was horrible to say the least.
Have fun with the painting -- can't wait to see the end result :) - November 12, 2009 at 7:37 AM
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Oh man, that pink is powerful stuff! Good luck!
- November 12, 2009 at 9:51 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Sherlock -- yikes. We also gave a tour of the house when we had our housewarming (at the insistence of our guests). There were some odd looks when they saw these rooms. Until we clarified that we weren't keeping the colors, that is :).
TKW -- thanks, we're going to need it! Happy to report that the third coat of primer seems to have done the trick. - November 12, 2009 at 12:29 PM
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So glad the third coat masked the pink. Wow. That stuff really wanted to shine its light, no?
Can't wait to see the finished walls! - November 12, 2009 at 3:19 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Me too, GEW! We actually discovered that there is ANOTHER color under the pink -- some nasty shade of turquoise, visible where the previous residents missed some spots around the baseboards, in the closet, etc. And we think the pink is a home-mixed shade to boot. We found a can of paint that had a label indicating it should be white, but it had dried up Pepto-Bismol drips on the outside. I'm guessing they threw in a little red, stirred it up, and called it a day. Amusing, no?
- November 12, 2009 at 5:29 PM
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goodness, isn't that blue dark! I wouldn't like to sleep in such a dark room. Good luck with the transformation
x - November 15, 2009 at 12:24 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Thank you, FF -- fortunately no one has had to sleep there since we moved in. D uses it as his office.
- November 16, 2009 at 6:02 PM
7 comments:
LOL this made me think of when bro-in-law and family moved into a huge new house two years ago, sis-in-law hired painters to do the inside of the entire house. She couldn't wait to show off the house when they were done. OMG the colors made me shudder!!!!! It was horrible to say the least.
Have fun with the painting -- can't wait to see the end result :)
Oh man, that pink is powerful stuff! Good luck!
Sherlock -- yikes. We also gave a tour of the house when we had our housewarming (at the insistence of our guests). There were some odd looks when they saw these rooms. Until we clarified that we weren't keeping the colors, that is :).
TKW -- thanks, we're going to need it! Happy to report that the third coat of primer seems to have done the trick.
So glad the third coat masked the pink. Wow. That stuff really wanted to shine its light, no?
Can't wait to see the finished walls!
Me too, GEW! We actually discovered that there is ANOTHER color under the pink -- some nasty shade of turquoise, visible where the previous residents missed some spots around the baseboards, in the closet, etc. And we think the pink is a home-mixed shade to boot. We found a can of paint that had a label indicating it should be white, but it had dried up Pepto-Bismol drips on the outside. I'm guessing they threw in a little red, stirred it up, and called it a day. Amusing, no?
goodness, isn't that blue dark! I wouldn't like to sleep in such a dark room. Good luck with the transformation
x
Thank you, FF -- fortunately no one has had to sleep there since we moved in. D uses it as his office.
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