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Body: in sickness and in health
More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)
The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.
Travel: neither here nor there
Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.
Writing: the long and short of it
After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.
The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.
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Why My Fall Made Me Feel So Ashamed11 months ago
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Mantras1 year ago
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Things Fall Apart3 years ago
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#MudpunchKAL20213 years ago
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Your Hard is Hard (The Pandemic Version)4 years ago
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Thank you, and a Look Ahead5 years ago
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A New Chapter9 years ago
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Overnight Research Trip9 years ago
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how to get through a thing10 years ago
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Heart: family and friends
That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.
Recommended reading
Monday, May 24, 2010
At long last
Of the four irises we picked out on our visit to the farm almost two years ago to the day, the tawny gold one bloomed last Thursday afternoon. She waited through a year in a planter on a too-shady apartment balcony and a long fall and winter in the ground at our new house. Finally, finally. Welcome to the world, pretty one.
(Yes, before we started fostering kitties, we named our plants.)
I'm so glad we didn't miss this moment. We'd planned a last-minute weekend trip down to Portland to see the same friends we were visiting when we went to the iris farm in 2008, and I had a feeling this iris would bloom while we were away. And then once it did open, I wasn't sure I'd get a decent picture because the weather was uncooperative -- up through last Friday afternoon, it rained pretty steadily. But just after I loaded up the car, the showers slowed and some sun sneaked through. So I slipped to the front of the house and snapped some quick shots.
A lucky interval, those five minutes. I'll take them.
Thesis
- "Writing in My Father's Name: A Diary of Translated Woman's First Year" in Women Writing Culture
- Because I Remember Terror, Father, I Remember You
- Darkroom: A Family Exposure
- Do You Remember Me?: A Father, a Daughter, and a Search for the Self
- Five Thousand Days Like This One
- Giving Up the Ghost
- Middlesex
- Simple Recipes
- The Bishop's Daughter
- The Possibility of Everything
- The Wounded Storyteller: Body, Illness, and Ethics
- Where the Body Meets Memory: An Odyssey of Race, Sexuality and Identity
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- I Was in a Commuter Marriage
- Long-Distance Marriages, Better for Business?
- Love on the Road, Not on the Rocks
- Making Marriage Work from a Distance
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- Ten Things Commuter Couples Need to Know
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Monday, May 24, 2010
At long last
Of the four irises we picked out on our visit to the farm almost two years ago to the day, the tawny gold one bloomed last Thursday afternoon. She waited through a year in a planter on a too-shady apartment balcony and a long fall and winter in the ground at our new house. Finally, finally. Welcome to the world, pretty one.
(Yes, before we started fostering kitties, we named our plants.)
I'm so glad we didn't miss this moment. We'd planned a last-minute weekend trip down to Portland to see the same friends we were visiting when we went to the iris farm in 2008, and I had a feeling this iris would bloom while we were away. And then once it did open, I wasn't sure I'd get a decent picture because the weather was uncooperative -- up through last Friday afternoon, it rained pretty steadily. But just after I loaded up the car, the showers slowed and some sun sneaked through. So I slipped to the front of the house and snapped some quick shots.
A lucky interval, those five minutes. I'll take them.
14 comments:
- Corinne Cunningham said...
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Absolutely gorgeous!
- May 24, 2010 at 6:40 PM
- Jules - Big Girl Bombshell said...
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Beautiful! They are one of my favorite flowers. I have purple ones that my cuz pulled from her garden and sent to me across country. It bloomed for the first time this year!
- May 24, 2010 at 9:49 PM
- Good Enough Woman said...
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Heeellooo, Tessa!
I'm not sure I've ever seen an iris that color. Beautiful! - May 24, 2010 at 10:02 PM
- French Fancy... said...
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Tessa is such a gorgeous colour - now I've seen the purple ones, I've seen the creamy ones but I've never seen this golden/tawny/bronzy colour before. She is really lovely.
- May 25, 2010 at 8:22 AM
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Beautiful color!
- May 25, 2010 at 10:16 AM
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Ooh, Tessa. What a pretty lady you are!
- May 25, 2010 at 2:05 PM
- BigLittleWolf said...
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Incredibly beautiful. Something so "human" about the iris. Expressive like a face.
- May 25, 2010 at 4:37 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Jules -- welcome. Irises are one of my favorites too. We're hoping to do the same, dividing the rhizomes once they've grown and spread. D's dad would love to have cuttings from us.
GEW, FF, and Sherlock -- the color was part of the reason D was especially interested in getting one of these. He picked one other, a third one was my choice, and then we got a bonus bulb thrown in as a gift from the farm. Can't wait to see how the others turn out! This one was called "Instant Smiles."
Corinne, Kristen, and BLW -- it's like looking at something with an actual personality, no? I'm reminded of the gowns Deborah Kerr wore in The King and I. - May 26, 2010 at 2:37 PM
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So delicate, so pretty! Love this.
- May 26, 2010 at 7:34 PM
- Leslie said...
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Ooooh, lovely. I love that butterscotch irises and am glad you caught it! We have only purple and burgundy; my mother has yellow and pink. Around here, I know that spring is on the on the way out when they show up.
- May 26, 2010 at 10:35 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Jane -- me too. I wish I had a better view of this little bed from the window over the kitchen sink. (I get plenty of opportunity to stand there ...)
Leslie -- welcome! Yes, the irises do mark a season shift around here too. May is usually fairly cool but June is anybody's guess. I'm hoping for fewer heat waves than last year since we don't have air conditioning. - May 27, 2010 at 10:49 AM
- TKW said...
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Hi Tessa! You are lovely!
- May 29, 2010 at 6:54 PM
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Beautiful, love the raindrops on them. Hope you had a fabulous time with your friends.
- June 1, 2010 at 9:38 AM
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Beautiful, love the raindrops on them. Hope you had a fabulous time with your friends.
- June 1, 2010 at 9:38 AM
14 comments:
Absolutely gorgeous!
Beautiful! They are one of my favorite flowers. I have purple ones that my cuz pulled from her garden and sent to me across country. It bloomed for the first time this year!
Heeellooo, Tessa!
I'm not sure I've ever seen an iris that color. Beautiful!
Tessa is such a gorgeous colour - now I've seen the purple ones, I've seen the creamy ones but I've never seen this golden/tawny/bronzy colour before. She is really lovely.
Beautiful color!
Ooh, Tessa. What a pretty lady you are!
Incredibly beautiful. Something so "human" about the iris. Expressive like a face.
Jules -- welcome. Irises are one of my favorites too. We're hoping to do the same, dividing the rhizomes once they've grown and spread. D's dad would love to have cuttings from us.
GEW, FF, and Sherlock -- the color was part of the reason D was especially interested in getting one of these. He picked one other, a third one was my choice, and then we got a bonus bulb thrown in as a gift from the farm. Can't wait to see how the others turn out! This one was called "Instant Smiles."
Corinne, Kristen, and BLW -- it's like looking at something with an actual personality, no? I'm reminded of the gowns Deborah Kerr wore in The King and I.
So delicate, so pretty! Love this.
Ooooh, lovely. I love that butterscotch irises and am glad you caught it! We have only purple and burgundy; my mother has yellow and pink. Around here, I know that spring is on the on the way out when they show up.
Jane -- me too. I wish I had a better view of this little bed from the window over the kitchen sink. (I get plenty of opportunity to stand there ...)
Leslie -- welcome! Yes, the irises do mark a season shift around here too. May is usually fairly cool but June is anybody's guess. I'm hoping for fewer heat waves than last year since we don't have air conditioning.
Hi Tessa! You are lovely!
Beautiful, love the raindrops on them. Hope you had a fabulous time with your friends.
Beautiful, love the raindrops on them. Hope you had a fabulous time with your friends.
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