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Body: in sickness and in health
More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)
The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.
Travel: neither here nor there
Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.
Writing: the long and short of it
After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.
The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.
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Why My Fall Made Me Feel So Ashamed11 months ago
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Mantras1 year ago
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Things Fall Apart3 years ago
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#MudpunchKAL20213 years ago
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Your Hard is Hard (The Pandemic Version)4 years ago
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Thank you, and a Look Ahead5 years ago
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A New Chapter9 years ago
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Overnight Research Trip9 years ago
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Heart: family and friends
That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.
Recommended reading
Monday, November 30, 2009
And now, back to doing this*
I got a call back from the GI doctor's office a week ago, following up on the abnormal liver enzyme stuff. The good news is that nothing requiring immediate, invasive intervention is necessary. The bad news is that there is no short-term way to address the problem. Basically, for the next seven weeks, I get to abstain from alcohol and all anti-inflammatory meds, see what my enzyme levels look like in mid-January, and then reassess the situation. Which means I get to do the craziness of holiday season without the two things I was kind of counting on to help me get through it: good wine to calm my frazzled nerves and painkillers to put the kibosh on tension headaches (family get-togethers involving Troubadour Dad will do those things to a person). Oh, joy!
Oh, help.
I am going to get through this just fine, I assure you, but it may not be pretty. However it goes, I'll try to make it entertaining here. What's a stressful holiday without finding some way to laugh at it?
I will also be indulging myself in very good coffee flavorings for the duration of this no-alcohol thing. Torani, I'm looking at you and all your tasty sugar-free syrups.
* Photo courtesy of Marketing Sis
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Monday, November 30, 2009
And now, back to doing this*
I got a call back from the GI doctor's office a week ago, following up on the abnormal liver enzyme stuff. The good news is that nothing requiring immediate, invasive intervention is necessary. The bad news is that there is no short-term way to address the problem. Basically, for the next seven weeks, I get to abstain from alcohol and all anti-inflammatory meds, see what my enzyme levels look like in mid-January, and then reassess the situation. Which means I get to do the craziness of holiday season without the two things I was kind of counting on to help me get through it: good wine to calm my frazzled nerves and painkillers to put the kibosh on tension headaches (family get-togethers involving Troubadour Dad will do those things to a person). Oh, joy!
Oh, help.
I am going to get through this just fine, I assure you, but it may not be pretty. However it goes, I'll try to make it entertaining here. What's a stressful holiday without finding some way to laugh at it?
I will also be indulging myself in very good coffee flavorings for the duration of this no-alcohol thing. Torani, I'm looking at you and all your tasty sugar-free syrups.
* Photo courtesy of Marketing Sis
8 comments:
- Good Enough Woman said...
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Oh, CT. I am so sorry that you have to go boozeless.
With the kind of will power and discipline you've had to demonstrate, I'm wondering if you should become a Tibetan Buddhist. Surely, you're already part-way up the path of enlightenment.
Or, it should be good practice for the discipline of writing. I hope.
Hang in there! You can do it!
(My verification word is "immanic.") - November 30, 2009 at 10:27 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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I appreciate your condolences, GEW. I have a feeling, though, that true Tibetan Buddhists would find me utterly unfit to become part of their circle. I have too many replacement vices for the ones I can no longer enjoy ;). Maybe that's why I've been able to deal with having them taken away?
- December 1, 2009 at 1:14 AM
- TKW said...
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SEVEN weeks with out alcohol???!!!???
Duuuuuuude.
You have nothing but my complete sympathy. At least tell me the doctor had pity on you and prescribed Valium? - December 1, 2009 at 11:40 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Yep, TKW, seven weeks. It was eight starting last Tuesday, but hey, one down already!
:P
I WISH the doctor had offered me Valium. Though the kitty is a nice substitute (so calming to have her asleep on my lap). Unfortunately, she can't come with us during the holidays, and the hope is that she'll get adopted before then. - December 1, 2009 at 12:35 PM
- French Fancy... said...
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I think it is lack of painkillers that would affect me more than lack of alcohol. I also get tension headaches and sometimes also take pain meds for my back. Oh you poor thing - you can do it, you can do it - just keep brainwashing yourself
- December 2, 2009 at 10:10 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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It IS like brainwashing, FF. Maybe I should consider producing a series of self-help CDs to sell! (Not really, I'd just keep repeating, "Get thee to an animal shelter and foster a pet ..." :). I wish I could take one of these darling kitties with me over the holidays. I imagine Poppy and Misty are lovely to have when you're not feeling 100 percent.
- December 2, 2009 at 11:01 AM
- Goldfish said...
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You have my complete sympathy. Empathy. Was off the booze (not that I'm on it heavily anyway, but still) for four months for medical reasons. And, in practice, it wasn't difficult. But the idea? Horrifying.
- December 8, 2009 at 6:46 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Hi Goldfish! Thanks for stopping by -- am enjoying your blog immensely. You're right, in practice, the non-drinking isn't bad. When not under doctor's restrictions, I actually do just one glass of wine with dinner as it helps with my blood sugar levels. The stress of the holiday season just feels like it warrants more :)
- December 8, 2009 at 12:23 PM
8 comments:
Oh, CT. I am so sorry that you have to go boozeless.
With the kind of will power and discipline you've had to demonstrate, I'm wondering if you should become a Tibetan Buddhist. Surely, you're already part-way up the path of enlightenment.
Or, it should be good practice for the discipline of writing. I hope.
Hang in there! You can do it!
(My verification word is "immanic.")
I appreciate your condolences, GEW. I have a feeling, though, that true Tibetan Buddhists would find me utterly unfit to become part of their circle. I have too many replacement vices for the ones I can no longer enjoy ;). Maybe that's why I've been able to deal with having them taken away?
SEVEN weeks with out alcohol???!!!???
Duuuuuuude.
You have nothing but my complete sympathy. At least tell me the doctor had pity on you and prescribed Valium?
Yep, TKW, seven weeks. It was eight starting last Tuesday, but hey, one down already!
:P
I WISH the doctor had offered me Valium. Though the kitty is a nice substitute (so calming to have her asleep on my lap). Unfortunately, she can't come with us during the holidays, and the hope is that she'll get adopted before then.
I think it is lack of painkillers that would affect me more than lack of alcohol. I also get tension headaches and sometimes also take pain meds for my back. Oh you poor thing - you can do it, you can do it - just keep brainwashing yourself
It IS like brainwashing, FF. Maybe I should consider producing a series of self-help CDs to sell! (Not really, I'd just keep repeating, "Get thee to an animal shelter and foster a pet ..." :). I wish I could take one of these darling kitties with me over the holidays. I imagine Poppy and Misty are lovely to have when you're not feeling 100 percent.
You have my complete sympathy. Empathy. Was off the booze (not that I'm on it heavily anyway, but still) for four months for medical reasons. And, in practice, it wasn't difficult. But the idea? Horrifying.
Hi Goldfish! Thanks for stopping by -- am enjoying your blog immensely. You're right, in practice, the non-drinking isn't bad. When not under doctor's restrictions, I actually do just one glass of wine with dinner as it helps with my blood sugar levels. The stress of the holiday season just feels like it warrants more :)
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