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Body: in sickness and in health
More recently, illness, pure but not simple, has added itself to the mix in a multi-system sort of way. And the challenges in figuring out exactly what's gone wrong are many. As problems have revealed themselves in the last few years, beginning with reactive hypoglycemia in late 2008, I've documented them here, partly to gain a little clarity on managing complex conditions but mostly to give voice to vulnerabilities I feel but don't normally share with anyone face to face. Better out than in, they say, right? (Oh yes, humor is one way I deal.)
The links below cover the different angles I've examined (and from which I've been examined) within that experience.
Travel: neither here nor there
Since we're no longer in separate places, I blog less often from airports. But we do travel -- together now! -- which is much more fun to write about. So in addition to thoughts on our years of commuting, the links below cover the places we've been as a pair and, in some cases, the adventures that have happened on the way.
Writing: the long and short of it
After graduating, I taught English for a few years and then worked as an editor, which I still do freelance. In 2007, I applied and got into an MFA program at a place I like to call Little U. on the Prairie. I finished my degree in 2011 and have been balancing tutoring and writing on my own ever since.
The following links cover the writing I've done about writing: process, content, obstacles, you name it. It's not always pretty. But some part of me loves it, even when it's hard. And this is the result.
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Why My Fall Made Me Feel So Ashamed11 months ago
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Mantras1 year ago
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Things Fall Apart3 years ago
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#MudpunchKAL20213 years ago
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Your Hard is Hard (The Pandemic Version)4 years ago
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Thank you, and a Look Ahead5 years ago
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A New Chapter9 years ago
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Overnight Research Trip9 years ago
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how to get through a thing10 years ago
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Heart: family and friends
That's what this group of posts is reserved for -- heart. The essential parts of my life whose influences I carry with me, for better or worse. The links below cover what I've written as I've learned how these forces work within me, for me, against me, in spite of me. They anchor me even as they change me, and they keep life interesting.
Recommended reading
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Making do
What we were missing was an (expensive) electric table saw. Instead, we had the kind of saw that you use arm power to run and a guide (see photo) you can mount on your workbench to keep your cuts straight. Only we had no workbench -- just a lightweight table with a particle-board surface. It was left behind in our laundry room by the previous owners of our house, and we had no use for it, so we figured, why not?
It's really hard to saw anything if your entire workbench jiggles.
Enter the Two-Person Weighted Sawing System. One person sits on the table while the other person saws. Easy solution!
Well, not quite.
In the photo, you see D positioning a piece of molding on the guide, which is screwed down to the table. Note that the molding has to be cut at a 45-degree angle through its cross-section (or so I'm told), which requires it to be held at the tilt pictured. There is no way to secure the molding with the clamp that came with this guide unless the molding is lying flat (as in, parallel to the table surface). So in order to accomplish the proper cut, one person has to hold the molding firmly while the other person applies the saw. Hmmm.
In the end, we revised the TPWSS slightly -- D sawed while sitting on the jury-rigged workbench and I became a human vise for the molding. I do not recommend this approach unless the person sitting on the workbench is heavy enough to make jiggle practically nonexistent. Otherwise, your thumbs will hurt A LOT.
So last night, we finished cutting the last piece for the guest bedroom. This weekend, we're going to get everything mounted. We had originally planned to make do with a hammer and nails. Fortunately, one of D's colleagues owns a nail gun, which we are definitely going to borrow!
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Thursday, November 19, 2009
Making do
What we were missing was an (expensive) electric table saw. Instead, we had the kind of saw that you use arm power to run and a guide (see photo) you can mount on your workbench to keep your cuts straight. Only we had no workbench -- just a lightweight table with a particle-board surface. It was left behind in our laundry room by the previous owners of our house, and we had no use for it, so we figured, why not?
It's really hard to saw anything if your entire workbench jiggles.
Enter the Two-Person Weighted Sawing System. One person sits on the table while the other person saws. Easy solution!
Well, not quite.
In the photo, you see D positioning a piece of molding on the guide, which is screwed down to the table. Note that the molding has to be cut at a 45-degree angle through its cross-section (or so I'm told), which requires it to be held at the tilt pictured. There is no way to secure the molding with the clamp that came with this guide unless the molding is lying flat (as in, parallel to the table surface). So in order to accomplish the proper cut, one person has to hold the molding firmly while the other person applies the saw. Hmmm.
In the end, we revised the TPWSS slightly -- D sawed while sitting on the jury-rigged workbench and I became a human vise for the molding. I do not recommend this approach unless the person sitting on the workbench is heavy enough to make jiggle practically nonexistent. Otherwise, your thumbs will hurt A LOT.
So last night, we finished cutting the last piece for the guest bedroom. This weekend, we're going to get everything mounted. We had originally planned to make do with a hammer and nails. Fortunately, one of D's colleagues owns a nail gun, which we are definitely going to borrow!
4 comments:
- TKW said...
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You own a Work Bench....whoa. Wicked Impressed over here.
- November 20, 2009 at 7:26 AM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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Awww, TKW, now I'm blushing. Really, the surface isn't even 2' by 2' and it's no more than 2' from the ground. See that office chair in the background holding up the other end of the crown molding strip? Real carpenters would never use a TPWSS ;)
- November 20, 2009 at 11:21 AM
- Good Enough Woman said...
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Did you write that whole post in Greek? Seemed like it. It may sound too tradition of me, but I am really glad my husband and his brother take care of that stuff. I am very overwhelmed by hands-on projects that involved precision, tools, and instructions.
- November 20, 2009 at 12:22 PM
- This Ro(a)mantic Life said...
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GEW, there is no way I would have been able to write the post if I hadn't been there to observe the process. Even now, I'm not sure I know what happened in D's head to figure out how those pieces of molding had to be cut. I bow down before his carpentry skills! I also tried handling the saw for about 30 seconds and promptly relinquished it. Sawing is tricky.
- November 20, 2009 at 12:39 PM
4 comments:
You own a Work Bench....whoa. Wicked Impressed over here.
Awww, TKW, now I'm blushing. Really, the surface isn't even 2' by 2' and it's no more than 2' from the ground. See that office chair in the background holding up the other end of the crown molding strip? Real carpenters would never use a TPWSS ;)
Did you write that whole post in Greek? Seemed like it. It may sound too tradition of me, but I am really glad my husband and his brother take care of that stuff. I am very overwhelmed by hands-on projects that involved precision, tools, and instructions.
GEW, there is no way I would have been able to write the post if I hadn't been there to observe the process. Even now, I'm not sure I know what happened in D's head to figure out how those pieces of molding had to be cut. I bow down before his carpentry skills! I also tried handling the saw for about 30 seconds and promptly relinquished it. Sawing is tricky.
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